Meet your partner in planning.
Let’s build an experience together.
I'm a wedding and event planner who believes the best celebrations feel personal, intentional, and true to the people at the center of them. Long before launching tux + tulle, I spent years working in venue operations and event management, giving me a behind-the-scenes understanding of what it takes to turn a vision into a seamless experience.
I created tux + tulle because I saw an opportunity to offer couples something more than a checklist and a timeline. I wanted to create a planning experience that feels supportive, collaborative, and tailored to who you are.
Whether you're planning a sophisticated city wedding, a destination celebration with your favorite people, or an intimate gathering that reflects your story, I'm here to help guide the process with thoughtful organization, creative problem-solving, and a calm presence every step of the way.
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At the end of the day, my goal is simple: to help you feel confident, cared for, and fully present so you can focus on what matters most—celebrating your love and the people who make it meaningful.
Hi, I’m Jacob —
the heart behind tux + tulle.
Exceptional events start with exceptional collaboration.
You bring the love. We’ll bring the logistics.
Mr. + Mrs. | Mrs. + Mrs. | Mr. + Mr. | ___ + ___ | tux + tulle |
Mr. + Mrs. | Mrs. + Mrs. | Mr. + Mr. | ___ + ___ | tux + tulle |
THE QUIZ:
Let’s break the ice!
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Intentional > trendy
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a spicy mezcal margarita (with Tajin rim, obviously)
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“Absolutely!”
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Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
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castles, botanical gardens, and anywhere with a dramatic staircase (we love a good entrance)
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journaling, time in the sun, and good beats in my ears.
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statement florals + personalized playlists
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anywhere Mediterranean.
Why Choose Me?
I plan weddings that actually feel like you. Every couple is different – and your wedding should be, too. At tux + tulle, there’s no copy-paste here. Whether what you’re dreaming of is bold and immersive or effortlessly chic and intimate, I design experiences that reflect your personality and your priorities, for a love story that is uncompromisingly yours.
Before launching tux + tulle, I worked in venue operations and event coordination. That experience shaped my understanding of how venues function, timelines are built, and how vendors work together on event day.
Furthermore, I’m not just a planner – I’m a partner. This isn’t just a job for me. I care deeply about the moments we’re going to create together, and the experiences we’re going to build. From your first email to your final dance, I’m in your corner with empathy, integrity, and excitement!
My Planning Style
I’m the calm in the chaos, the keeper of timelines, and your personal hype man, from “Yes!” to “I do.” I plan weddings with equal parts experience and emotion — balancing the big picture with the tiny details that make your celebration yours. Here’s how I approach every event:
Intentionality first. No cookie-cutter weddings here. Every element is chosen with purpose and personalized to reflect your story.
Inclusive always. Whether you’re planning a two-bride barn-bash, a multicultural rooftop celebration, or a glam destination fete with drag queens and disco balls — your love story is honored here.
Design-driven, logistics-loving. I speak both love languages — vibes + spreadsheets. The aesthetic will be stunning, and the execution seamless.
Grace under pressure. I’ve mastered the art of smiling while pinning boutonnieres, rerouting rain plans, and solving seating chart crises. (You’ll never even know they happened!)
Our Core Values:
Inclusivity: All love stories all welcomed and honored.
Community: Build connections – not just events – through thoughtful design and collaboration.
Professionalism & Precision: Consistency and attention to detail are non-negotiable.
Ease & Elegance: Planning should feel effortless and joyful.
and above all — Individuality: Each event is a one-of-a-kind reflection of the couple; a “one size fits all” model is unrealistic.